Do You Want to make your sweet girlfriend feel more special and loved? Use
these 20 great ways on how to make your girlfriend happy to do that,
every day.
As girls, it’s in our nature to be affectionate and loving.
And when we’re in a relationship with a wonderful guy, we love being treated in a special way by them.
But more often than not, a guy just doesn’t know how to treat his
girlfriend in a special manner, even if he’s trying hard to please her.
How to make your girlfriend feel happy
Making your girlfriend feel happy and loved isn’t a complicated confusion.
In reality, it’s very simple.
You just need to make her feel special and cared for when you’re around her.
If you want your relationship to be perfect and envied by all others couples, learn to think from your girlfriend’s perspective.
When both lovers in a relationship think from the other partner’s
perspective, the relationship can only get better and more loving with
time.
25 ways to make your girlfriend feel loved and happy
A perfect relationship is never one sided. When you make the effort
to please your girlfriend and make her happy, she’ll involuntarily put
in her effort at making you happier in love if she truly loves you back.
So the next time you’re with your special girl, instead of holding
back, give more. In mutual love, every loving act gives back more
happiness to both lovers.
For starters, use these 20 tips on how to make your girlfriend happy
to pamper her and please her. And I’ll tell you this, you’ll definitely
be the winner in the game of love.
#1 Surprise her with memorable gifts. Make sure you
never forget your girlfriend’s special occasions, however trivial they
may seem to you. And every now and then, show just how much you love her
by giving her a memorable gift of love, be it a bling thing or a
priceless gift like a heartfelt letter of love.
#2 Make her friends envy her. All of us want our
relationships to be perfect, but very few of us actually work towards
making it perfect. Treat your girlfriend with love and affection, and
pay attention to all her needs, especially when she’s around her
friends. When her friends notice how good a catch you are, her heart
will swell with pride and happiness, and you’ll feel like a real smooth
talker too!
#3 Get along with her friends and family. To a girl,
her family and her close friends mean everything, because she shares
all the intimate details of her life with them. And to a large extent,
she listens to her friends and takes their opinions seriously. So make
an effort to get along with her friends and treat them well. She’ll be
happy to see that you’re a big hit with her loved ones.
#4 Don’t ignore her when she’s with you. Make your
girlfriend feel like she’s the center of your world all the time, and
especially so when she’s with you. Don’t ignore her because you’re
having a fun conversation with another attractive girl or are distracted
by something else. When your girlfriend is around you, it doesn’t
matter who or what is around, make sure your attention is focused on
your girl.
#5 Respect her opinions. As humans, respect plays a
big part in how we feel about ourselves. When we feel disrespected by
someone important to us, we feel miserable. And this holds the same
effect in relationships too. Don’t dismiss your girlfriend’s opinions
and ideas without listening to her, and don’t take her lightly just
because *she’s a girl*. In a relationship, both partners have to learn
to listen to each other and respect each other’s point of view.
#6 Ask her for help. You may be a big, fully grown
man. But that shouldn’t stop you from asking your girl for help now and
then. By letting your girlfriend see your vulnerable, helpless side,
she’d feel closer to you because you aren’t afraid of showing your
weaknesses to her.
#7 Compromise for her. Every now and then,
compromise your wants for her needs. If she wants to watch a romantic
movie while you want to watch something else, give in to her now and
then. When she sees how you’re willing to give up something you like
just to please her, it’ll only make her feel more loved and happy.
#8 Cuddle up with her at home. Do you end up getting
turned on each time you hug your girlfriend or kiss her for a few
minutes? That’s understandable. But at least once a day, hug her tight
and cuddle with her while watching the telly or when both of you are
lying in bed. For a girl, a few hugs and sweet kisses feel just as
special as a good round of passionate sex.
#9 Be affectionate with her in public. Make your
girlfriend feel special when you’re with her in public. You don’t need
to eat each other’s faces off to make a point that both of you are
dating.
Hold her hand, brush her hair away from her face, make her feel like
you’re completely attentive to her needs, and most importantly, don’t
hold yourself back from behaving in a silly manner if you can bring a
smile on your girlfriend’s face.
#10 Make her laugh. Humor has a very important place in
relationships. Even when both of you don’t have anything to talk about,
a few funny lines or gestures can make the whole day feel like such a
fun activity.
#11 Make her feel secure. If you want to make your
girlfriend feel happy in the relationship, you need to focus on the one
thing girls want most in a guy, his protective streak. When your girl
feels secure when you’re around, and when she feels like she can depend
on you for anything, she’d instinctively feel happier to be in love with
you.
#12 Give her your attention. When you go out with
your girlfriend, do you stay close to her and make sure she’s feeling
comfortable, or do you leave her aside and catch up with your own
friends?
When your girlfriend is around, always focus on her needs first
before you think of yours. If you need to spend a few minutes away from
her to speak to your own friends, make sure she won’t feel uneasy when
you aren’t around. Whenever you’re out with your girlfriend, always pay
attention to her needs before yours.
#13 Communicate. Misunderstandings arise when there
is a lack of communication in a relationship. If you want to have a
happy relationship with your girlfriend, learn to express your feelings
clearly. And every now and then, spend a few hours talking about each
other’s lives. When you spend a lot of time talking about your future
together, both of you will feel more secure and loved in the
relationship.
#14 Compliment her. Women love compliments. It makes
them feel more appreciated. If you like something about your girlfriend,
let her know about it. It doesn’t matter if it’s something about her
personality or about the way she dresses, if you like it, say it.
#15 Let her know you’re lucky to have her. Did you
have to woo your girl for a while before she finally accepted to date
you? Always let her know that you still love her just as much as you did
when both of you first started dating. And more than anything else, let
her know that you have never taken her for granted and never will. If
you feel lucky to date such a wonderful girl, remind her about it all
the time.
#16 Be chivalrous. Chivalry is one of those big
positive traits in a guy that separates the ordinary men from the
gentlemen. Always be chivalrous around your girlfriend, and learn to
treat her like a princess. She’ll definitely love your courteous side
and all the pampering that comes with it.
#17 Involve her in your life. If you’re serious
about your girlfriend and see her as a big part of your life, learn to
involve her more in your daily life, be it for get-togethers or a night
out with your friends. When you invite her to spend more time with you
and your friends, you’re letting her know that you’re serious about her
and the relationship. And emotional security always makes any girl in
love a much happier girlfriend!
#18 Call her unexpectedly and sweet talk her. Love
shouldn’t always be predictable, especially when it’s a happy surprise.
Drop by at her place or at her office out of the blue with flowers or a
small gift. Call her up when she least expects your call and remind her
about how much you miss holding her in your hands right at that moment.
In love, if it’s a happy feeling, share it. It makes all the difference
between a happy romance and a bored one.